Advice on dating woman with teen children
Unfortunately the babys daddy will NEVER go away and there will always be some emotional connection there. Hooking up is a different story tho haha I tried dating single moms. Too often I got stood up because some crisis with the kids happened and I wasn't even allowed to help out. She'll always have to plan shiit around her kid, look for babysitters, etc.Just "talk to you next week" As for unruly kids and a mom who can't apply any discipline.... She can't just walk up and go out like a woman with no kids.Maybe thats shallow, but i dont want to enter a relationship as the 3rd wheel always between her, her kid, and the kids dad. I respect that kids should come first, and im always nice to these girls kids.Join KIVA - Donate to those in need around the world! But some women just take it to far and think there kid is the most special, non disruptive, kid in the universe.So im 30 years old now, and the past 5 years or so have dated/ smashed quite a few girls that have kids.At first, i tried being open minded about it, but now, especially with current GF, its really starting to wear on me.
Then again, I'm a selfish mothafuka, her kid will always come before me, and I can't handle that kinda shiit unless it's MY kid, then and only then I'll take the back seat lol.
"All I care about is being the absolute best." - The Rock "I Will Not Be Outworked. You might have more talent than me, you might be smarter than me, you might be sexier than me, you might be all of those things. But, if we get on the treadmill together, there's two things: You're getting of first, or I'm gonna die.
It's really that simple."- Will Smith I respect that kids should come first, and im always nice to these girls kids.
Unfortunately most woman don't know jack about raising kids they want to nurture them not raise them Dating a single mom is not for everyone.
I've tried and it won't happen again, it was just bad all around. Too often I got stood up because some crisis with the kids happened and I wasn't even allowed to help out.
Brb No alone time Brb Constant interuptions from kid, cannot have a conversation without kid interupting Brb Kid wants a toy, a dog, a cat, a gerbal, and any other animal and wont quit asking for it despite being told no Brb Kid wants all mommys attention all the time Brb Mom is all stressed out from over bearing kid and takes it out on me causing needless arguments Brb Do not want to listen to parenting advice Brb Kid secretly resesnts me, despite how nice i am to it, and talks crap behind back to GF's mom about how she is ignored Brb Cant watch a movie or talk on phone untill kid is asleep because GF cannot say Its rude to interupt people while they are watching movie or on phone when kid demands attention, despite having it all day Brb GF not wanting to work out or excersise because kid wont sit still for 20 mins while she runs on tread mill and i help her train The list goes on..